seeks
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Posted - 07/13/2009 : 16:03:15
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Basically, I want to let go, but it will kill me, I'm afraid. My husband of 17 years has schizophrenia, but refuses treatment. He actually refuses to acknowledge that anything is wrong. He used to take meds and saw a doctor, but quit. Why do people with mental illness do that? Why do they not want treatment? I don't understand. Anyway, he lives with his parents as his behavior is too difficult for me to cope with (I have 3 girls that I've raised pretty much as a single parent even while with my husband-one is cognitively impaired with major behavior issues). I so love him and know that divorcing him would be so hard on him, but I'm so beat/tired. I also think divorce is wrong- that's my honest belief, so that makes my decision so much harder. I'm at a loss. If I'm really honest, I think I want to stay married to him because I don't want to hurt anyone. |
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seeks
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10 Posts Gratitude: 7
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Posted - 07/13/2009 : 20:01:29
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Hercules 21, Thank you so much for your input. I've watched half of the video and intend to finish it later. Also, I'm interested in the book that you suggested. Of course, I'll definitely check out the website (thanks for breaking the rules). I'm looking for answers and am open to all insight on this subject. I thought that what you said about your own thoughts to your father's response was so interesting. I'm guilty of not listening and validating my husband's thoughts. Now that I think about it, I'm horrible in that regard. From now on, I'll be looking for those moments of clarity. It gives me hope to know that they do exist. Thanks again. |
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