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guru
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 Posted - 12/10/2016 : 10:35:38
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Trust your gut-instincts.
Even if your intuition says 'let's face it,' 'let's confront it,' if you are in a social gathering that makes you uncomfortable and paranoid - take a taxi-cab home. Or just safely, if you live in the vicinity - walk away. Do whatever, or have a friend drive you home before the 'party' is over.
You do not need to subject yourself, in an uncomfortable manner - to crowds of people - a true 'asylum' sometimes LOL - even if it means, conversely, to be 'sociably acceptable,' or 'proper.' If you're not mixing in, or, if the 'alchemy' and 'chemistry' isn't right, it most probably isn't 'right.' Trust your insight.
Value yourself. Stand up for yourself. In the paranormal states we're truly jacked in, we can tell if the atmosphere feels amiable or hostile.....
Unsafe exit? People being pissed off you left? Let them worry about that.....if 'they' clone you anti-social, they are certainly not your friends....your true buddies will understand why you left the 'party' or sociable 'gathering.'
You got to stick with number 1 - namely your safety even if it means rejecting a crowd that makes you manic and bewildered......flustered and chaotic.
They call you anti-social? Screw them.....you know - have to know - what is standing up for yourself, rather than subjecting yourself to the martyrdom of 'bad vibes.' And in the world of today there are so many 'bad vibes.' Do not expose yourself. The degree of paranoia you're experiencing makes it not worth it.....be very perceptive and acute- never trust alternative 'bad feelings' but do trust your 'sixth-sense' impressions this meeting of random people is giving you.
Is this a prescription for hermits? No - by all means - but you can certainly 'read' if a situation is comfortable or not. Trust your intuition - it something feels 'wrong,' it probably is 'wrong,' and you shouldn't be there in the first place, being affected by bad energies from negative people........  |
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